Travel, for me, is about connecting with people and nature. After my second trip abroad, I found out that I wasn’t into checking off the biggest number of places or visiting the most popular attractions in each country. Staying in glamorous hotels or getting five-star services wasn’t my thing. Going to a place without trying local transportation or without living with locals would make me feel like missing out. Since then, my travels have been linked to people and social interactions.
Traveling slowly, exploring locally and finding gems in very ordinary places is all I need. It provides me with a sense of simplicity and satisfaction simultaneously.
Having vegetarian homemade meals with a local Nepali family after helping out on their farm in Bhaktapur, attending a Nepali wedding party in Birgunj, receiving some rupees from the bride (which was a kind of tradition) and seeing how much we have in common, more than differences, taking my host’s children for a walk in Mombasa and buying them ice cream were a few of my happiest and unforgettable experiences.
I found generosity and warmth in most places. On that farm in Bhaktapur, my host’s wife gave me some of her winter clothes as I wasn't equipped for that cold weather. She was also keen to feed me well every day. One day, I accompanied her wearing one of her saris when she went to vote, everyone we passed by thought I was a Nepali relative of her.
I’m still in contact with some but life got in the way with the most of them.
I’m wondering whether the Nepali woman got more volunteers! How the Kenyan girls look now after two years! Do they still remember me? How many children do the married Nepali couple get?
great point about the local transportation! it is very different around the world and always interesting. When I have been abroad, I have always liked going to markets. They are great places to see and interact with local people, and of course get some good food
My purpose of going abroad has been always learning porcelain painting or visiting my friends who live there. It's always fun because they are locals so that they know lots of great spots where I should go. Thank you for sharing your thoughts here. I totally agree with what you wrote.
I have never been overseas and the thought of it overwhelms me. But your post makes me feel different about traveling.
If you are interesting, there is a youtuber I love called Damon Dominique -- what you have just talked about reminds me of his travelling philosophy. He is an American who lives in Paris. https://www.youtube.com/@damondominique
Thanks for your commenting and sharing your thoughts on my post, @hhh777 and @yumiyumayume! :)
Thanks for the link, @via-chan! As a hard of hearing female, traveling sometimes overwhelms me but the advantages I get from it outweigh the disadvantages. I'd like to resume traveling whenever I get a chance and enough money. :)