The last few months have been tough for me. My grandmother passed away unexpectedly in November. She was truly one of a kind. She was warm, loving and welcoming. She was really the embodiment of the stereotypical Italian nonna. She was a retired farmer and, as you can imagine, when you’ve spent all your money and life cultivating fields, they become everything to you. You could get her out of the fields—which was impossible anyway because she was as stubborn as a donkey—but you couldn’t get the fields out of her heart. Yes, my nonna had a strong will; when she set her mind to do something, there was no stopping her. The thing is that the fields she cared most about were hours away from her house, up in the mountains. Therefore, she always had to rely on her children to get her there. When I think of her, food is the first thing that comes to my mind. She made homemade pasta often, especially cavatelli, fusilli al ferretto and ravioli. I have many regrets, but I have to suck it up. Ciao nonna 🧡.
On a more positive note, I’m actively working on my German because I’m going to Vienna on holiday in March. I’ve been learning German on and off for three years, without putting much effort into it. Now I feel very motivated to improve my German. In case you’re wondering, I know that Austrian German is different from standard German.
I should also work on my English, which is pretty rusty.
Sorry about your Nonna! 🖤 And best of luck on your Deutsch.
English not at all rusty. Sorry about Nonna. May you know the comfort of Jesus.
Thank you both!
I’ve been thinking about you and wondering how you’ve been. I’m so sorry about your nonna. As a nonna myself, I hope my grandson will remember me the way you write about yours. Good luck on your German and enjoy your trip! I'm looking forward to hearing from you.
Your nonna’s  death was sad enough when it happened, but reading about it now with such detail makes it even more heartbreaking. I’m still so very sorry for your loss. And if this post is any indication, your English is far from rusty!
@yumiyumayume Thank you, Yumi. My youngest cousin is only four years old. He often says that he misses his nonna. It breaks my heart to know that his memories of her will fade as he grows up 😢.
@CocoPop Thank you, Uly. I'm also sorry for your loss and for your brother. I left a lot of things out of my post. For example, she had a vegetable patch and some chickens 60 metres behind her house. Although she had an injured leg and walked with a limp, she went there every day. Her children used to scold her, saying that she might fall and hurt herself or catch a terrible cold. In fact, she did fall once while trying to pick up some tomatoes. She didn't have her phone with her—which was very typical of her—so she couldn't call for help. She was found three hours later. Thank god it happened in the morning when it was relatively warm. Needless to say, all her children were livid with her. In her defence, her answer was always the same: "what am I going to do at home? I have nothing to do there."
Just a few days ago, my mother told me a story about my nonna that really captures her essence. I was just a kid when it happened. My mother and my nonno wanted to take my brother and me to the beach. They asked nonna to come, but she replied "I don't like going to the beach. You go. I'll stay here." So we went to the beach without her. When we came back, we found the chimney broken. My nonna had smashed it with a hammer 🤣. Apparently, my nonna had been wanting a new chimney for quite a while, but my nonno was against the idea. That tells you all you need to know about her.
I like how you nonna thought!))) Sometimes, if you want something done right or done in the first place, you have to do it yourself. Good for her! Thank you for your kind words — I went and saw my brother yesterday and he was actually awake. He didn't speak, but he looked from me to my other brother and even smiled. I'm glad you got around to writing this post. In the end, all we have is fond memories. That's why it's important to make them while we can.
I'm happy for you. Seeing your brother smile must've meant a lot to you.
Thank you)) It meant everything; a glimmer of hope.