I learned the term "looksmaxxing" from an American friend during a conversation. He showed some examples and explained what it means. According to him, some young men are keen on changing their appearances. If they have enough energy to change how they look, I wonder why they don't spend their time brushing up inside of them and trying to improve their skills. I quite don't understand why they so concern how they look.
I think attractiveness relates to their thoughts, intelligence, attitude, behaviors, and more. What do you think?
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These people are unfortunately related to 'incels' (involuntary celibates) who often believe they are unfairly treated by society, and they are owed a girlfriend. Because they believe that looks are everything, they fail to see that their shitty personality is the thing causing them to be ostracised. This leads to them turning to other 'incels' for help, and they fall deeper into the rabbit hole. It's a sad, vicious cycle.
I think the Little Prince said it best: "It is only with the heart that one can see rightly; what is essential is invisible to the eye."
@schmamie Thank you so much for your opinion. I truly agree with you. I think at first, everybody doesn't have enough confidence, and we can build it eventually. And it'll become their own attractiveness.
@CocoPop Thank you as always for reading, correcting, and commenting. The book is very philosophical and a great book. Thank you for the word.