Beyond The Drinks  (Drinks And Emotions)
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Beyond The Drinks (Drinks And Emotions)

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Is there a drink that you usually have, not because you like it but because of how it makes you feel?

I do it a lot. Although I don't really like how coffee tastes, I drink it just because I like how it makes me feel; content and calm. I like its smell as well. I believe that's why while having coffee, I always eat something sweet because I don't savour the flavour itself.

The very first time I tried coffee was in Tanzania in 2019, during my first trip abroad. During the mornings of my stay in a remote village in Dodoma, I used to have a cup of coffee with some chapati, a kind of flatbread that I like. I mean I really like how chapati tastes, not only how it makes me feel.

Since then, whenever I have coffee, I remember those days. It's like an incentive that reminds me I made my dream of traveling come true, and more dreams can come true too.

Last year, an American friend taught me to make a drink she made up. She used to add fenugreek, turmeric, coconut oil and some honey as a sweetener to a cup of hot water. This drink tasted to me so similar to Moghat, an Egyptian drink recommended for women after giving birth. Moghat is made from moghat powder (a mix of fenugreek, anise, turmeric, corn flour, and coconut), cooked in ghee and sugar.

I vividly remember that my mother used to have it after she gave birth to my brother. She had the delivery at home with the help of her aunt, who was a kind of uncertified midwife.

For a few days after the labour, she was given moghat, chicken and soup to help her recover her health and increase breastmilk flow. While sitting beside her, she used to share some chicken and moghat with me. At that time, I was almost six years old. I was going to join school the next academic year.

Hence, Moghat, in my mind, is associated with these moments, sitting close to my mother, being fed by her.

Although Fenugreek causes sweat and urine to smell pungent, which I dislike, I'm making my friend's version of Moghat these days. I miss my mother and I miss how safe I used to feel around her. The drink somehow calms me down.

P.S. Which title do you prefer: Beyond The Drinks or Drinks And Emotions?

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