All of my cousins are going to our hometown village, my cousins told me if ill go with them I told them that ill ask my father first, When I asked him he tolled me no I tried to discuss it with him but he kept saying imagine if there is 5 years old kid if he did a wrong thing and you tried to tell him that this is wrong since you are older than him and you know what he is doing is wrong he won't agree with you because he is not old enough to recognize that this is a wrong thing, I tried to figure out why by myself and I only got one answer which is the people we know there are not good some of them were in prison and some do illegal things and if I go there even if I don't want to make the relationship between me and those guys better it will be a bit better over the time. So I think my dad is thinking for the long term not just seeing the moment which I fully agree with him even though I still want to go there but I respect my dad and I got to lesson to him.