When I talked with my co-workers yesterday, I couldn’t think of how to say something in English immediately.
My Vietnamese co-worker said that we should be careful if the Nouth Vietnamese people invite us to dinner when we visit their house. It often means a reminder for us to go home.
I wanted to say that there is a similar culture in Kyoto, Japan. I’ve heard that when the Kyoto people want guests to leave, they say that would you like to eat “ぶぶ漬け (Bubu-duke)”?
*ぶぶ漬け…The different name for a menu which is tea over rice
However, I wasn’t able to explain about that well.
Because I confused at that time, should I use “I” as if I’m a Kyoto person? Or, should I use “they”? Which is better? Also, how should I explain “ぶぶ漬け”? I thought about a variety of things at the same time, my brain ended up being frozen.
I have to practice speaking more.
PS
This story about Kyoto is just a rumor. My friend from Kyoto is very kind.
To answer your question at the end, if you're actually from Kyoto yourself then you could use "we", but if you're not than you should probably just refer to people from Kyoto with "they".
Thank you for your advice! Actually, I'm sometimes confused regarding same things "Which way to explain is easier to understand?" in Japanese, too. I'll keep your advice in my mind from now on.