A couple of days ago, while chatting with a friend of mine from Texas, he shared a very interesting story, which there was the only one Japanese survivor from the Titanic tragedy, with me. Since I'd never heard such a story, it was fascinating to listen to.
The passenger's name was Masabumi Hosono. He had studied abroad in Russia as a high-ranked railroad worker back then. Since he finished his studies, he was on his way back to Japan in Titanic. Then, he was involved in the tragedy. He wasn't a wealthy passenger, so he was staying in a second-class cabin. Although many male victims were from the second-class cabin, fortunately he survived. He jumped into a lifeboat with a bunch of women and children and was rescued.
After returning to Japan, his actions were criticized by some. These people thought he was a coward because he jumped into a boat for women and children. Back then, our society still had bushido, the samurai code of honor, and it was considered more honorable for him to have died with the other male passengers. As a result, even though he survived the tragedy, he lost his job, his reputation, and his social standing.
My friend and I discussed what we would do in his situation. Both he and I agreed that we would try to survive even though we deeply respect those who sacrificed their lives. Masabumi's family must have be waiting for his return. He couldn't abandon his children. I think it's unfair to blame him, but I also understand that societal values at the time didn’t see it that way.
I also add one more interesting fact. Masabumi Hosono’s grandson is the famous musician, Haruomi Hosono. He was a member of Yellow Magic Orchestra (YMO). When I found out about their connection, I thought, “What a small world!” Incidentally, two of YMO's main members have already passed away even though it didn't relate to any tragedies, Haruomi is the only surviving member much like his grandfather.
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