[short writing task] about Marriage
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[short writing task] about Marriage

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I was writing this as an answer to friends who were asking how attitudes towrds Marriage are in our respective countries.

The crowd was very international and 30% of them were asians.

We were all kind of explaining what it meant to us or what we observed around us about marriage.

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I think marriage is okay but certainly not an obligation nor should it be.

I know that many countries still hold the tradition of marriage very dearly: a lot of my old students (mainly Nepalese and Vietnamese people) often told me how life cannot possibly go on if you do not get married and have a lot of children to build a family of your own.

I think that it makes sense to get married for practical reasons, such as taxes or a visa/permanent residence permit. But it is just a contract, a piece of paper.

That said, I as a girrrrrrrrl (;D), do have this idealistic image of a couple bound by love and who would spend the rest of their lives together. I think the concept or romantic love can work, as can partnership work too.

I just don't think that real feelings necessarily need to be contracted.

Nor do I think that promises of love should be considered more serious because they are enforced by laws.

But I guess this way of thinking is very "modern western-like".

We think of marriage and couplehood as being two different things that can be paired up in some cases, or not in others.

In my jaded, pessimistic mind, I actually think that real Trust resides precisely in believing in each other's feelings and intentions, without having money or laws ensuring you that your partner is going to stick around or behave.

I could add that I do think that attitudes towards marriage have been changing over the past 40 years throughout the world, but wedding catering is a business that still has a long and international future in front of it!

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